Do you still make out?

Do you still make out?

Jun 12 2008, 5:07 PM EDT
Yes my husband and I still make out, we have been together for about 4 years now. We find that the sex, and making out gets better the longer we are together as we are comfortable with each other, know what each other likes and does not like and we both like to try something new to spice things up.

I think if you and your partner truely love each other then making out would always be intermate and special. Some times it can go sour or get boring but then try to find something new and exciting to try. Or go on a date and act like when you first got to gether. Make an extra effort to dress up, go somewhere fun and special and even get him to pick you up and buy you flowers.

How we keep the fire going is some times I would leave a little note saying I love you in his lunch box as a surprise for him when he is at work. Or he will make me breakfast in bed or cook me a special meal. I would leave a trail of rose petals leading to a note telling him to follow the clues if he wants to find me, then run a hot bubble bath with candles and enjoy spending time together.

There are many ways that can help to keep a relationship alive and not getting boring. Here are some more hints and tips. I hope this has been helpful for you.

Play stip poker / or a card game

Sit with a bottle of wine and talk about all your favourite memories and how you felt when you first met.

go on a date

do a photo section where you each take photos of each other.

Be silly and put make up on each other and be all silly

Tash

Jun 12 2008, 5:37 PM EDT
Tasha.,I was making out a few months ago, you know who with.We played truth or dare dominoes.Which is more dare then truth.Let you guess what the dares consisted of.Point it didnt help me. The bottle of wine.Thats fine, but is how I got call a drunk.We went out to dinner, most of it I paid for..We did photo's, Nothing gross.I'm glad after my friend's deal..All of the above is good if you got a decent guy to do it with.Maybe I need to come to England

DramaQueen58

Jun 12 2008, 5:50 PM EDT
You deserve a decent guy who will treat you right! You are a special person and do not deserve the way he treats you. There is someone special out there for everyone, you have just not found him yet. They say when you stop looking then you will find. x

Tash

Jun 12 2008, 5:56 PM EDT
I asked my spirit guides if they could help me to see if you will find love soon, and this is what I got,

When the time is right, I feel there is still so much around you and in your mind and it is blocking out the person you are meant to be with. Once you let go you shall find. I can see a church and a green grochers, also the name Desmond is loud in my head. I am being told that you will meet mr right but somewhere very unexspected. I hope this helps. x

Tash

Jun 13 2008, 8:40 AM EDT
I do not, when my ex and a i were still together we never made out. He made excuses like he wants to wait until we have been dating for longer. We were together for 3 months.

DaisyDavies

Jun 14 2008, 3:06 AM EDT
My husand & I haven't made out for years, since the birth of my daughter who is now 8 years old although I can recount one event about 3 years ago. It is not a problem for us. We are totally committed to each other, we love each other dearly and hold the upmost respect for each other. Are we missing out? Maybe we are but at the end of the day its our choice. If we made out would we be happier. I don't think we would be but the smiles on our faces may be BIGGER! LOL

Anonnymous

Jun 14 2008, 11:47 AM EDT
Hay ANONYMOUS how are you? How do you handle not making out with your husband?? No disrespect or anything but do you think he finds other ways of pleasing him self? I guess if you are both happy then fare dos just I could not handle it. Had this girl friend once she would not let me touch her. I fell for her big so put up with it but had to end it after 5 months as felt there was something missing in the relationship. What is your name ANONYMOUS? Are you the same ANONYMOUS on the other threads? Why not tell us who you are, good to make new mates on here.

Cheers

Deon-barker-footballer

Jun 14 2008, 2:52 PM EDT
You know A. Sex to me is not the major part of a relation, even though I wouldnt want one without it .What you said above, respect ,commitment. love.,If you are getting along & its no problem .I wouldnt worry about it.ASK yourself do I want more in my relation ? Is the choice mutual .I can't see a guy going very long, not these good old American guys anyway. Think thats the 1st thought out of there mind when they are born here .lol TRY it see how bigger his smile gets :-)

DramaQueen58

Jun 14 2008, 5:22 PM EDT
Hi. just to let you all know that it is mutual. Time goes by so quickly as we have busy lives. We have been together for 12 years.I do wish sometimes that if we made the effort and made time for each other, alone we would get it on and have a great time. You would probably here my screams of pleasure and his across the oceans right to the good old USA! But joking apart it is not the end all and be all of our relationship. We are the greatest of friends and laugh alot together and that in itself releases our endorphines which makes us feel great! We are not frustrated but maybe we both have low sex drives.

ANONNYMOUS

Jun 14 2008, 6:37 PM EDT
You say> I do wish< Surprise him.Sounds to me like you would like a little fun..Are you afraid he might reject you if you made the 1st move.If not hon , go for it.Life is to short.What the heck ,your married.Anything goes.You don't have to have sex to have a romantic evening anyways.But if it goes that way. Then you can squeal like a pig.

DRAMAQUEEN58